dictionary of thesaurus defines happiness as, a) satisfaction b) eternal rest c) blessedness d) ecstasy e) lightness in spirit ... and so on...
all of these words, being so fancy and all, hang loose in mind. for me, happiness, like laughter, is an uncontrolable urge. like the giggle loop, it grows, it conquers, it tickles and tingles.
i'm kinda indecisive about one thing though; which one is easier? to identify a sad person or a happy one?
maybe sadness has its dark clarity, while hapiness shines. apple of the eye won't lie.
so, as far as my attitude shows, these are the silly things most happy people do when their mind tickles:
1. Smile
Not a laugh but a sunny smile, accompanied by a translucent light twinkling in the eyes. this smile mostly enhances to the point of pointless stupidity. think of how you look from outside, when you walk around with a dumbass smile on your face.
but the big difference is, when you're geniunely happy, you don't care about how you look, or what people will think. you don't have a random joke popped up on your mind all of a sudden. you're happy! yay! so who cares...
2. Clapping
Maybe not all happies clap to every exciting thing they hear. i can't imagine a 50 year old happy executive clap cheerfully when he learns his company stocks hit the highest notes. but for me, and maybe for most of the 16-year-old- girls around the world, clapping shows happines. if you realize that the person in front of you acts like this:
"Really? that's great! (clap clap)"
"OMG that'sawesome! yay! (clap clap)"
"Aww that's the cutest kitty i've ever seen (clap clap)"
"i've bought new shoe laces (clap clap)"
":) (clap clap)"
know that she is happy. but keep in mind this kind of a happy clap is not an applause. it's performed with the tips of the fingers. kinda like a hello kitty move.
ah, cuteness is like candy, it nauseates after a whole three packs.
3. Earthly pleasures
happiness comes with a boost. an undefinable, coming out of nowhere hunger towards pleasure. it is logical, since "the happy" had tasted the cheery piece of life, she won't stop until she gets the next dose. whether if you're happy because of love, work, family life or money, you seek to accompany that with earthly pleasures, like tasty food, beautiful clothes, hair products, fruity lipsticks, fun fun fun movies, exotic alcoholic beverages of sorts, upbeat songs, kittens, playsation, youtube, bubble bath, sex... all kinds of its and bits the world has to offer. go little happy go. the world is a magical place. go play!
4. Chatterbox
this is kind of a side effect. the happies are rattlebrains. they are selfish too. not a pleasurable combination. they tend to talk on and on about how happy they are. how life is great, how the sun shines, how the rain falls beautifully, how the snow flakes hit the window, what his/her boy/girlfriend said the other day (oh, how sweet), how he/she responded to that sweet gesture, then how he/she answered back, then how they hugged, kissed and make out in front of the fireplace... ok, sorry, im losing myself here. so anyway, happy people talk. la lal lalala.. shiny happy people, blah blah blah..
5. Beauty
"happy people look more beautiful than sad people." this is the cliche of all times maybe. but kinda true. if you believe that emos are beautiful, i wont argue at all. because the universe knows that they are fuckin happy IRL.
this happy glow im talking about, is not something paris hilton sticks on her face. it is not a fake smile, or a mac concealer... it is the inner light. (god, im so cheesy, i could die)
but, seriously, when you're happy, you wash your hair more often, you blush when you smile for no reason, you wear clean shirts, you smell nice, your eyes brighten...
as solid as that.
(clap clap)
Hiç yorum yok:
Yorum Gönder