200 years of love and pain

The Google Ngram for love vs pain is helpful obviously:



I complained, nagged, wept almost all my life.

there are some moments of bubbliness now and then.

But, I missed really good opportunities to be genuinely happy.

Fortunately google is here to help me see I'm not alone.

200 years of good writing, all to see we use 'love' -not so suprisingly- less and focus on the dreadful arrogance of 'pain'.

today I made a -not so convincing- promise to write down LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE 5 times a day.

maybe it will help change the course of history.


At least we have some good news, the word 'happiness' is on the rise too

Maybe I can replace some drama with this thought.

Around the World with Facebook

Around the World with Facebook

friendly dinner w/benefits

According to the source Scarlett Johansson and soon-to-be-ex hubby Ryan Reynolds had a 'friendly dinner' at Blue Ribbon, New York.

Sure, there's nothing sweeter than a friend to chat while having escargot and fried oysters for starters, chocolate bruno and fresh berries for dessert.

I'm sure ryan and scar.jo has just discussed the mere details of their divorce, then talk about their new love interests and have a blast.

that is what I usually do.

Mark Zuckerberg

Only diplomacy I care about

Mark Zuckerberg is Time's person of the year.
I think I'm the only one who cheers for this, since chick magnet Julian Assange was expected to hit #1.

so this proves,
only diplomacy we care about is digging ex-boyfriends' dirt on facebook.

Mark most definitely is the hero of our time, by granting the 'stalkbook' to all the psychos and retards in the world.

gratz

that's what home feels like

I couldn't quite state the feeling i got by just stepping inside my flat nowadays. Then, i found this:

beautiful piece of destruction/art to express how home feels like now.

(Julien Berthier, 'Welcome Home', 2003)

two more lonely people

Today, in a mall, in the crazy mess of clothes and demented women, miley cyrus was singing this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uc2CGi09bus&feature=related

And instantly upon the extreme cheesiness of the situation, i thought about eleanor rigby.
"look at all the lonely people..."

so comes the conclusion: best beatles song memory shifted, it is now eleanor rigby's job to bring back good (or bad) times...

reasons why you need domestic heroism at home

define domestic heroism: A Crixus at home.

I just poped my backbone trying to get ice from the icebox. which leads to the conclusion that every girl needs some muscle at one point.
for situations like:
-ice cracking
-various fixing
- bottle opening
- furniture moving
- bug killing
- grocery shopping

i dont want to die like samantha jones, with a severe flu and no one to call for soup.

my back still hurts, is it worth it?